Private Coaching for Men Who Need Complete Confidentiality

Confidential coaching for those that need to keep things out of the public. Anonymous. Unjudged. Effective.

How it Works
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By an Executive, for Executives

I’ve been where you are, I can walk you out of it. You’re not alone.

You’re successful, but secretly feel the cracks forming. You’re struggling to keep up the illusion. Alcohol and/or drugs started off as fun and social. Then they became your escape, your solution to help you deal with the pressure of work and home. Your family and friends don’t understand. The conflicts in your relationships are increasing. Your circle is getting smaller. You’ve drawn a line in the sand many times. If X, then I’ll stop. If Y, then I’ll get help. The line keeps moving and the dependency increases. The stress continues escalating. You need help. You’re scared.

The risk of being seen seeking help, is greater than continuing on the path you’re on. You need rock solid confidentiality. Anonymity. I’ve been where you are. Today, I’m sober, happily married (to the person who hated me and wanted divorce) and thriving in life. I’m not unique. This is available for you as well.

I’m not a therapist or doctor. I’m your Invisible Edge. No one will know we’ve connected. There are no records, documents or recordings. We meet on your terms. In person or virtual. This decision will change your life, IF you’re willing to get honest.

I built The Invisible Edge for men who are struggling in their marriages or with addiction. You’re high-achieving, highly visible, and silently struggling. You want help, but need confidentiality and a safe space where you can seek refuge without being exposed. I can help you.
No records. Just the truth and a path forward.

If any of these are true, you’re in the right place

  • A glass of whiskey with ice cubes on a wooden desk next to a wristwatch, a closed book, and a window with blurry cityscape in the background.

    Your mind is racing. Alcohol and/or drugs is the only way to slow it down.

  • A man and woman sitting on opposite sides of a bed in a hotel room, both looking down, with city buildings visible through the window behind them.

    The marriage has become distant. You want to fix it, but keep stumbling.

  • A man in a suit sitting in an office chair with his hands clasped and head bowed, looking down in a pensive or worried pose, with a cityscape visible through the window behind him.

    Anger is the new norm. Mostly at home, but starting to show up outside as well.

  • Split image showing a business presentation with a man in a suit pointing at a rising stock graph on a large screen, and a dimly lit hotel room with an unmade bed, glasses, papers, and a phone on the floor.

    You’re a “success” (publicly), but falling a part (privately).

How We Work

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1: Anonymity

Book under initials or a pseudonym. No bios. No files.

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2: HOW this works

Honesty, Openmind, Willingness. If you can’t or won’t be honest, save your money, this won’t work.

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3: Results

No more bandaids or temporary wins. A design for living that works. IF you work it.

Secrets are cancer of the soul. Complete anonymity unblocks the crippling fear of humiliation or embarrassment. The silent suffering is over, if you want it to be.

Confidentiality Isn’t a Feature. It’s the Foundation.

🔒 Book with initials or a pseudonym

💳 Payment via Stripe — we never see or store card details

🚫 No recordings, no paper trail

✉️ Private link sent 1 hour before your session

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About Alex

I’ve been with my wife for over 25 years (married for 15). Found financial freedom from a young age. Owned restaurants, night clubs and fancy cars and jewellery. I got in with the wrong crowd, did stupid things, became addicted to alcohol and drugs and almost lost everything—marriage, money, purpose. I got sober, rebuilt, and learned how men like us actually change. Since then, I’ve helped other men get their lives back—quietly, effectively, and without losing their edge. All without compromising their public image or family’s reputation.

“Real strength is asking for help”

What Clients Say (Anonymously)

“I was in a $hit storm. I had stage 4 cancer, my marriage was a train wreck. All I did was talk to Alex everyday. Somehow, I got sober and beat the cancer. I’m no longer married, but we have a good relationship today and have 2 beautiful children. Very grateful”.

~ EVP, Sales

“My son, has been in multiple treatment facilities, within a month he was always using again. Alex came to our home, spent time with him. I don’t know what they discussed, but today Michael is sober and doing well. We are very grateful to Alex”.

~ Parent

Frequently Asked Questions

  • Yes—use initials or a pseudonym.

  • Yes, please book a session with Alex and provide as much context as possible so he can advise you on the best next steps in helping your family member.

  • Yes, Alex does in person visits where it is needed. This is sometimes very critical in earning the trust of the individual who needs help. Please book time and this can all be discussed.

  • No. It’s private coaching by a former exec who’s been through it.

  • No. Stripe processes payments; we never see card details.

  • 24-hour policy; reschedule link in your confirmation email.

  • This practice is for men only.

  • Yes, please book a session with Alex and provide as much context as possible so he can advise you on the best next steps in helping your family member.

  • Yes, Alex does in person visits where it is needed. This is sometimes very critical in earning the trust of the individual who needs help. Please book time and this can all be discussed.

When you’re ready, I’m here.

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